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“Yes, my fiancée is still married, but he ran out on her and she hasn’t heard from him in 14 years. Can we marry?” At Down Under Visa we hear this story all the time. Most of the time it’s probably very true too, because the Philippines has its fair share of irresponsible men. It happens all too commonly with OFW’s (Overseas Filipino Workers) too, when the husband or the wife goes to Dubai and never comes back again.

cannot remarry or marry in the philippines if you are still legally married to your last spouse, even if the filipina wife was abandoned

Can she marry me when she’s still legally married?

Short answer? NO! Long answer? HELL, NO!!

I remember seeing a marriage license application from India many years ago.

Questions:

  1. Married or unmarried? Yes/No
  2. If married, state how many wives are still living?

The Philippines is not India, and whilst I’m not sure what the Muslims here are allowed to do under Sharia Law, if your Filipina lady married under the regular laws of the Philippines, ie under the Family Code of the Philippines, then she may only have one husband at a time. If she’s still legally married, she can’t marry you! If she married Jhun Jhun from Mt Tambay in 1983, she’s still married to him.

And Australia is similarly conservative when it comes to the topic of polygamy. Your future wife may only have one husband at a time. To get an Australian partner visa, she needs to be legally free to marry before applying for a partner visa based on a present or prospective marriage. It applies to you too, ie. if you married Betty Thumpkins in Oodnadatta in 1967 and she’s alive-and-well and you didn’t get a divorce, she’s still your blushing bride!

Being married twice at the same time, this is called bigamy and it’s a crime in Australia as well as in Philippines.

Legal solutions for your still-married Filipina fiancée?

There is no legal no-fault divorce in the Philippines. No idea what Mr Duterte is planning, but regardless of this there have been quite a few bills go to congress to introduce easy divorces over the years yet they’ve all been overturned. So I wouldn’t hold your breath.

The main option is to get an annulment. I won’t go into great detail right now, because I’ve written about this extensively on the BLOG, eg HERE. This is the common pathway to end a marriage. It takes time, costs money, and the process is often frustrating. But most of the time they are successful. I can’t actually think of any time where a couple had one knocked back by the judge.

The other solution which is used on occasions is the presumptive death option. If the applicant has reasonable grounds to believe that her ex-husband is actually dead, and no one has seen or heard from him for 4 years, this could be an option. You just need to be aware that if he suddenly reappears and tells the court he’s still alive, the subsequent marriage may be voided.

a marriage may be void in the philippines through presumptive death, but the husband has to be actually dead

There are various grounds by which a marriage may be declared null and void, including: marrying blood relatives, underage marriages, bigamous and polygamous marriages, and (would you believe) where one party killed their own spouse or the spouse of the other party!

Can’t wait for the first prospective client to come to me and say “I just killed my lady’s husband. Jeff, can you get her a visa???” I think they might have bigger problems to deal with!

What about a de facto relationship?

I’ve also written a lot of articles about de facto relationships, eg THIS one. You MAY remain married and apply successfully for an Australian partner visa based on a de facto relationship, and this may well save you from the miseries of going through an annulment. This is most definitely an option, and one which plenty of applicants choose. And we have a lot of experience in this area. Just be aware that it requires more evidence and documentation that a partner visa based on a marriage takes, and you don’t have a de facto relationship just because you firmly believe that you are in one.

That means you need to start living together, which you can do here in Philippines or over time through a series of tourist visas to Australia. Just don’t expect we can get you a 1 year tourist visa so you can do this, as that’s not what tourist visas are for. It will definitely take some work and some patience, and you will benefit enormously from some professional guidance. Ignore guidance and try to bluff your way through and it will end badly, though……as will any Australian visa application.

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8 Comments

  1. BERNALYN Ramos

    Hello! Iam a filipina I was married 7 yes ago to an Australian citizen, I had a civil wedding after that he didn’t come back.He didn’t call or txt and change home even his family all disappeared.
    I met a nice guy and he accepted and love me but he want to marrying me. I’m here in Perth Australia as I granted a tourist visa. I hope you can give me some advice what visa and can solve this issue. I thought that was unlucky first time and this one work very good.
    Thank you
    Mabuhay

    Reply
    • Jeff Harvie

      You are still legally married, Bernalyn. You have two choices:

      – Get an annulment in Philippines
      – Or establish a de facto relationship with your current partner, and in time we can apply for a partner visa based on that de facto relationship

      Hope we can help you with a partner visa one day.

      Reply
  2. Marie grace

    I’m a filipina po, and I don’t to go back to my husband in Australia he make his prisoner and abuse me I don’t want that kind of life… I was married last year but I thought marry a good man… And now moving forward to life and found new man his from turkey who’s willing marry me and he wants me to bring with him to his country… I’m wondering if I can still marry someone else even I was married in Australia ..i never been married in Philippines and my turkey man wants to marry me here in Philippines… My question is Am I still allowed to marry here ?

    Reply
    • Jeff Harvie

      You will need to check with the laws in Turkey. I know nothing about Turkish law or immigration.

      Reply
  3. Carmen

    Gudeve,im married to australian since 2015 here in phil.civil wedd.I hve one son to him 2 years old.he cut the connection.so cnt contact him.I use other account ,,I saw he hve other girl now living together.he send to me divorce letter but im not sign..!I just find out before he filed divorce he hve other girl..to his life.cnt attend court coz cnt afford to buy plane ticket going australia.last may 30,2018 first hearing.he filed divorced dec.03,2017 please help me what I do..what I file case to him?

    Thank you

    Reply
    • Jeff Harvie

      I can’t advise you about what you should do, sorry Carmen. Just understand that in Australia he can divorce you without your consent. The fact that you didn’t sign it, this makes no difference. He’s probably already divorced from you.

      Reply
  4. Jenet samargo

    Hello po I’m filipina and I’m legally married her in philippines but I’m 7years separated with my ex husband and no communication no support of our kids.and now I have an Australian bf and we live together in 2years.i just ask only f he can apply for me as an de facto from there country?I hope i can get an advice what I gonna do.

    Reply
    • Jeff Harvie

      I couldn’t tell you without assessing you, Jenet. Suggest you complete the assessment form on the link just above you.

      Reply

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